The Briefing

The Briefing

Dispatches on dad life, mental health, gear, music, relationships, and staying alive in your forties.

Relationships

Fighting Fair: How to Argue With Your Partner Without Wrecking Everything

Nobody gets into a relationship planning to fight, but if you have been in one longer than six months, you…

10 min read
Gear Reviews

Home Studio on a Budget: Building a Recording Setup Under $500

The full $500 recording setup, every dollar accounted for: the interface, the mic, the headphones, the free DAW, and the…

12 min read
Relationships

Why Your Friendships Change After Kids and What to Do About It

Losing friends after kids is one of those things nobody really warns you about when you're standing in the hospital…

9 min read
Relationships

The Co-Parenting Playbook: Making It Work When You’re Not Together

If you've gone looking for co-parenting tips online, you already know the problem. Most of what's out there reads like…

12 min read
Dad Life

The Dad Bod Debate: What the Research Actually Says About Body Image in Fathers

The meme gave dads permission to exhale. Then it got complicated. What the research actually says about body image and…

11 min read
Relationships

How to Stay Connected to Your Partner After Kids (According to Research)

The relationship after baby is one of the most studied transitions in all of couple psychology, and the findings are…

11 min read
Mental Health

Anxiety and the Working Dad: Managing Stress When Everything Depends on You

Working dad anxiety is one of those things that fills the room without anyone naming it. You are the provider,…

11 min read
Mental Health

Finding a Therapist as a Man: A Practical No-Nonsense Guide

Figuring out how to find a therapist as a man is, for a lot of guys, the hardest part of…

10 min read
Dad Life

Building a Backyard That’s Fun for Kids and Tolerable for Adults

Stop the plastic graveyard. Zone the yard, buy gear that serves two generations, and reclaim a corner that belongs to…

11 min read
Mental Health

Screen Time and Your Brain: What the Studies Say About Doom Scrolling

Doom scrolling effects on mental health have become one of the more quietly urgent conversations in behavioral research, and if…

12 min read